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Intimacy Guide Offerings

Are you looking to improve your sex life and strengthen your relationships?
From learning new techniques to understanding your core desire, sessions are tailored to meet your needs. Ready to stop Googling "how to have better sex" at 2 AM? Schedule your free 20-minute consultation and discover what's possible with professional support on your side. 

Sex & Relationship Coaching

Open to individuals and couples wanting to transform their relationship with intimacy and pleasure. Topics include:

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  • Sexual confidence

  • Sexual expression

  • Communicate consent, desires and boundaries

  • Non-traditional relationship structures (polyamory, kink)

  • Mismatched libidos

  • Your core desire (how you want to feel during sex)

  • Your hottest sexual movie (the actions that accelerate your core desire)

  • Reignite passion for yourself and your partner

  • Work through sexual blocks and anxiety

  • Conflict resolution

  • Dating and flirting

  • New identity integration (parent, divorced, single, trans, non-binary, kinky, queer, poly, disabled)

Surrogate Partner Therapy

Open to individuals (not couples) and requires collaboration with a licensed therapist. Either I can connect you with a therapist or collaborate with your current provider. We will:

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  • Navigate anxiety in intimate settings

  • Work through physical challenges (trauma, vaginismus, erectile concerns)

  • Build comfort with touch and physical connection

  • Learn to recognize and communicate body signals

  • Develop tools for managing triggers

  • Create new patterns of safety and connection

  • Build fundamental dating skills and confidence

  • Practice boundary-setting in real scenarios

  • Develop authentic flirting and conversation skills

  • Learn to recognize genuine attraction versus anxiety

  • Navigate dating apps 

  • Create lasting change through repetition and support

Yoga

Find Sensual Flow and Breathwork at 3rd Eye Meditation Lounge in Austin, TX. 

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Yoga is a self-focused practice where we can uncover the messages of what our body wants. To move in a way that feels good to your body is the foundation of embodiment and pleasure. Private lessons available.

Which Offering is Best for Me?

Learn more about my approach and how to determine which intimacy guide offering is best for you in my article: What is the difference between a sex coach and surrogate partner therapy?​

Young Gay Couple

Studies show that 43% of adults

report challenges with intimacy,

yet only 12% seek support.

Both sex and relationship coaching and surrogate partner therapy sessions are trauma-informed, consent-based, and focused on your needs and boundaries. Whether you're working through physical challenges, healing from trauma, or building fundamental intimacy skills, either offering provides a structured path forward. 

 

All sessions are confidential and LBGTQIA+ affirming.

Sessions available in-person in Austin or virtually.

Weekend intensives offered for out-of-town clients.

Sliding scale options.

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