Selfish Sexuality is...

Liberation

Interdependent rather than co-dependent

Re-writing your story

Attuning to another who sees you as whole

Dismantling people pleasing

In a relationship of consent with our bodies

Self-authored pleasure

Embodied intimacy

Selfish Sexuality is not

unkind
without awareness
only focused on yourself

"The quality of your relationships is what

determines the quality of your life."

- Esther Perel

In relationships is often where we try on new versions of ourselves, like that ambitious stack of clothes in a fitting room. But exploring your identity isn't as simple as trying on fashion trends.

That's where Selfish Sexuality comes in (and no, we're not talking about that one ex who never reciprocated). Selfish Sexuality offers sex and relationship coaching and surrogate partner therapy. As a certified sexologist with the American Board of Sexology, I help people who feel stuck, confused, or unfulfilled transform their intimate lives. Do you want...

to discover your core desire and experience the best sex possible?
build confidence that's as solid as your boundaries?
to address mismatched libidos or communication breakdowns?

Confidence is the successful repetition of endeavors. Whether you're single or partnered the Selfish Sexuality approach uses experiential learning that puts theory into practice building your confidence one step at a time. 90% of clients develop deeper, more fulfilling relationships within 3 months.

Book a free consultation today. Because life's too short for bad sex and mediocre connections. Step into your new identity wholly, securely. This isn't just coaching – it's an embodiment revolution.

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Testimonials

"For many years, I believed I had an unfixable problem. I was on the brink of giving up hope, until I discovered surrogate partner therapy which led me to Selfish Sexuality.

Miranda's ability to disarm you, allows you to feel safe and secure without judgement. Throughout our sessions, Miranda taught me to let go of the guilt and shame that followed me, thus allowing me to feel confident in myself.

Miranda has shown me that I am worthy of love, which is a gift that I will cherish forever."

- Chris, 32